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Salamo Elikom
.. I'm the person who posted this problem (absence of marriage).. Thanks to Prof. Dr. Mustafa and Dr. Henan for their assistance
Dr. Mustafa, I'm afraid your idea about marriage is quite impossible for the moment ... we are living in Egypt... Where the most mentally retarded society in the whole world lives ... Anyway... I have not tried the frequent fasting solution yet but according to my past experiences in the Holy month of Ramadan when I used to masturbate I would say that fasting only temporarily asides my sexual desire a little but when the time is available (which is after Maghreb) I’ll use this word “ I explode “ and it only takes a couple of min or so … about the athletics.. Yes I do that 30 min a day and I would like to add that I have lost 25 KGs since last December … so quite simply there must be those 2 min or let me say 5 min. in a whole day of 24 hours to do this… the problem does still exist. Lately I have been suffering from issues like involuntary having some white viscous liquid drops after toilet, eating, or even praying without any sort of sexual excitement... Some other times these drops turned out to be like urine or something … they are both happening from time to time and they really do annoy me ...
I have consulted a venereal physician (not sure if that’s how it’s said)... He told me that it’s due to not masturbating!! … In addition he advised me to masturbate whenever I can’t hold anymore… then I asked him about how this is going to affect my future sex life
with my wife regarding the fact that penis nerves will be trained over time to some certain kinds of movements and techniques of masturbation ...
He told me that this only happens to those who masturbate frequently like once per day or more … however he added that once a week or once per two weeks won’t let nerves get affected …waiting to see your view..
Thanks Dr. Henan I’m exactly such kind of person the one who always wants an exact solution for any given problem… let me say I believe in that maybe I turn this to the field of my study where there must be an exact solution but I’m not practicing this in every aspect of my life voluntary …Also want to add that I am suffering from depression few years ago and still.. I have been taking cipralex... Half pill or 1 pill a day … However I stopped taking this medication after few days for the continuous lazy and sleepy mood I have been through… Thanks for helping me.. Looking forward to hearing from you soon
17/08/2007
السلام عليكم
أنا صاحبة مشكلة في غياب الزواج شكرا للأستاذ الدكتور مصطفى السعدني والدكتورة حنان طقش لمساعدتهم.
شكرا لمساعدتي
أملا في سماع ردكم قريبا.
رد المستشار
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته؛
بعد قيامي بالترجمة رغم جهلي سبب استخدامك الانجليزية في الكتابة وإن كنت أرجح أنها محاولة منك للتملص من مجتمع تصفه بالتخلف وهو إن كان حقا أصبح كذلك فالسبب هو غياب العاملين الجادين وانشغال الكثيرين بأنفسهم على حسابه.
أشكرك على إشارتك المتأخرة جدا لمعاناتك من الاكتئاب وتوقفك عن تناول الدواء، وقد أقترح عليك أن ما تعانيه قد يكون درجة من الوسواس القهري أكثر منها رغبة وفحولة مستعرة ففقدانك كل هذا الوزن كفيل بأن يخفف ولو لفترة من رغبتك بدليل غياب أحلامك الجنسية ولكنها أفكارك المسيطرة لا حاجتك غير المشبعة أنصحك بالعودة لمراجعة طبيب نفسي لا تشكرنا على المساعدة فأنت وحدك القادر على مساعدة نفسك.
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